If you can not think through what you are being told on this forum and literally anywhere else that address these types of issues and see how some of what you are posting could be taken as targeted against women (or at least a specific woman in this case); then there isn't much more I or anyone else can do to explain it to you. I was by no means assuming you held any particular views. Just trying to let you know that if you continue to talk about this case and similar in the way you are posting here, people are going to assume you hold certain views. Views that you do not hold and do not wish to be assumed to hold.
Using "logic" and framing it as "No one would do this or that unless they are lying or some other less than ideal purpose because I strongly believe that Path A is the appropriate course of action and not Path B" is a wildly inappropriate way to approach things when you are dealing with toxic interpersonal relationships and potentially significant trauma.
Honestly, don't take my word for it. Take literally anyone else's -- its all over the internet.