I don't care if we have a player who shoots up heroin at the 50-yard line during warm-ups, then scores the game-winning touchdown and kicks a dog in celebration, then goes home and goes on a 36,000-word, profanity-filled anti-gay diatribe on social media while writing bad rap lyrics and watching snuff films, as long as he scored the touchdown.
If, on the other hand, being a dickhead is interfering with your ability to help win football games, then yeah, as a fan I think it's ok to have a problem with that. If Ben deliberately threw for zero yards in a game, people would be beside themselves asking what the hell the problem was ... well, here's a guy who had zero rushing and receiving yards by choice. So naturally, people are like, what the hell is this guy's problem?
edit: Just to clarify - I "don't care" about the outcome in the sense that no matter what, I find it unlikely that Bell is going to contribute much to us on the football field this season. But watching it unfold, you still smack your forehead with every successive donut hole.