It's a shame that something like this has to turn into a black/white thing when it should be a right/wrong thing we are talking about.
There are so many things that all of us don't know on both sides of the debate. We have all had life experiences that the people we are talking to can't possibly know or maybe even understand.
I just wish that everyone would just grow up and be accountable for their own actions and taking care of their own families. If everyone lived a good, honorable life, and they raised their children to be good people that should strive to love everyone in their lives, men should always treat women with respect, and that the color of someone's skin does not matter.....the country would take care of itself. Love your family and teach them the right things. Try to always treat others like you would want to be treated. Be accountable for your own situation.
I refuse to tolerate people that blame other people when they don't take care of their own issues.
Everyone knows right from wrong...…..everyone. It doesn't matter how much money you have, or if you have been raised in Hollywood or Harlem. We all have an inner compass that guides us and helps us make decisions. We also have our outside influences that help shape how we see the world, and teach us how to handle ourselves by example, like our parents.
I have been fortunate in this world to have wonderful parents that brought me up the right way. They took care of me, loved me, and kicked my ass when I needed it.
Some people have not been so fortunate in who they have had to raise them, guide them, and lead by example. That is not their fault. However, it is also not my fault or the fault of anyone not in their immediate family.
I think so many of us focus on the stuff we see happening now, and don't really see the underlying cause of the issues. So many people have a hard time overcoming their environment. There are so many that do, and that is a credit to them.
I see all this civil unrest, and while I do see a tough road for so many, I wish that more people were willing to be more introspective of what has led them individually, or as a people to where they currently are.
Are there white, racist assholes in this world? Without question.
Are there black, racist assholes in this world? Without question.
White people have had much more time as free men and women to forge their path.
Blacks were oppressed, and although free, have taken a long time to find their way and to overcome many obstacles along the way as they walked the path. I think we all understand that, or at least I hope we do.
I believe we have come to a place in time where there are no limits to what someone could do if they work hard enough and understand how the world works. It's time to stop blaming others and for people to fix their own problems from within.
I truly believe the problems of the black community are the result of too many kids without fathers or not being raised the right way. The problem is the underlying cause of much self-induced oppression. I know there is still hate out there, but that hate goes in both directions. I experience it every day in everyday life watching able bodied young men and women not working, collecting a check, selling drugs, having babies they don't care about, and sometimes committing violent acts. This applies to Whites, Blacks, and Hispanic people, but we all know the percentages are different for each demographic.
Fixing all of these problems starts at home. Men need to take responsibility for the children they produce and become a force of good in their lives. Not all relationships between men and women are good, but you can't ever stop fighting for your kids and preparing them for life and their futures.
Holding people accountable for how they live and not blaming outside forces is paramount to making life better for everyone. Some men and women need to become better people....period.....and we all need to put the blame of why there are so many troubled people where it belongs.